···166166The option of being unfailingly polite really doesn't exist. Nobody will167167trust somebody who is so clearly hiding his true character.168168169169-(*) Paul Simon sang "Fifty Ways to Lose Your Lover", because quite169169+(*) Paul Simon sang "Fifty Ways to Leave Your Lover", because quite170170frankly, "A Million Ways to Tell a Developer He Is a D*ckhead" doesn't171171scan nearly as well. But I'm sure he thought about it. 172172