oh so it was THIS

packages/backend/utils/baseQueryNew.ts

···
   // we edit posts so we add the interactionPolicies
   const postsToSend = postsToSendFiltered
     .filter((elem) => !!elem)
-    .map(async (elem) => {
-      let canReply = canInteract(
-        elem.replyControl,
-        posterId,
-        elem.id,
-        usersFollowingPoster,
-        usersFollowedByPoster,
-        mentions
-      )
-      let canLike = canInteract(
-        elem.likeControl,
-        posterId,
-        elem.id,
-        usersFollowingPoster,
-        usersFollowedByPoster,
-        mentions
-      )
-      let canReblog = canInteract(
-        elem.reblogControl,
-        posterId,
-        elem.id,
-        usersFollowingPoster,
-        usersFollowedByPoster,
-        mentions
-      )
-      let canQuote = canInteract(
-        elem.quoteControl,
-        posterId,
-        elem.id,
-        usersFollowingPoster,
-        usersFollowedByPoster,
-        mentions
-      )
-      await Promise.all([canReply, canReblog, canQuote, canLike])
-      return {
-        ...elem,
-        canReply: await canReply,
-        canReblog: await canReblog,
-        canQuote: await canQuote,
-        canLike: await canLike
-      }
-    })
+    .map(async (elem) => addPostCanInteract(posterId, elem, usersFollowingPoster, usersFollowedByPoster, mentions))
 
   return {
     rewootIds: finalRewootIds.filter((elem) => !!elem),
···
   mentions = await mentions
   post = await post
   // TMP hack
-  let res = true
+  let res = false
   if (post) {
     if (post.userId == userId) {
       return true
···
   }
 
   return res
+}
+
+async function addPostCanInteract(
+  userId: string,
+  postInput: any,
+  userFollowersInput?: string[],
+  userFollowingInput?: string[],
+  mentionsInput?: { usersMentioned: string[]; postMentionRelation: any[] }
+) {
+  let post: any = { ...postInput }
+  let canReply = canInteract(post.replyControl, userId, post.id, userFollowersInput, userFollowingInput, mentionsInput)
+  let canLike = canInteract(post.likeControl, userId, post.id, userFollowersInput, userFollowingInput, mentionsInput)
+  let canReblog = canInteract(
+    post.reblogControl,
+    userId,
+    post.id,
+    userFollowersInput,
+    userFollowingInput,
+    mentionsInput
+  )
+  let canQuote = canInteract(post.quoteControl, userId, post.id, userFollowersInput, userFollowingInput, mentionsInput)
+
+  await Promise.all([canReblog, canReply, canQuote, canLike])
+  post.canReply = await canReply
+  post.canLike = await canLike
+  post.canReblog = await canReblog
+  post.canQuote = await canQuote
+  if (post.ancestors) {
+    post.ancestors = await Promise.all(
+      post.ancestors.map((elem: Post) =>
+        addPostCanInteract(userId, elem.dataValues, userFollowersInput, userFollowingInput, mentionsInput)
+      )
+    )
+  }
+
+  return post
 }
 
 export { getUnjointedPosts, getMedias, getQuotes, getMentionedUserIds, getTags, getLikes, getBookmarks, getEmojis }

packages/backend/utils/queueProcessors/prepareSendRemotePost.ts

···
   PostTag
 } from '../../models/index.js'
 import { Job, Queue } from 'bullmq'
-import { Agent, BskyAgent, CredentialSession } from '@atproto/api'
-import { wait } from '../wait.js'
-import dompurify from 'isomorphic-dompurify'
-import { postToAtproto } from '../../atproto/utils/postToAtproto.js'
-import { getAtProtoSession } from '../../atproto/utils/getAtProtoSession.js'
 import { Privacy } from '../../models/post.js'
 import { completeEnvironment } from '../backendOptions.js'
 

packages/frontend/src/app/components/bottom-reply-bar/bottom-reply-bar.component.html

···
     <div class="flex gap-1 action-list" aria-label="Action list">
       @if (fragment.privacy !== 10 && fragment.privacy !== 1 && fragment.privacy !== 2) {
         <button
+          [disabled]="!fragment.canQuote"
           aria-label="Quote woot"
           mat-button
           color="accent"
···
       @if (!myRewootsIncludePost && fragment.privacy !== 10 && fragment.privacy !== 1) {
         <button
           aria-label="Rewoot"
+          [disabled]="!fragment.canReblog"
           mat-button
           color="accent"
           (click)="quickReblog(fragment)"
···
       }
       <button
         aria-label="Reply woot"
+        [disabled]="!fragment.canReply"
         mat-button
         color="accent"
         (click)="replyPost(fragment)"
···
         } @else {
           <button
             aria-label="Like woot"
+            [disabled]="!fragment.canLike"
             mat-button
             color="accent"
             (click)="likePost(fragment)"

packages/frontend/src/app/components/bottom-reply-bar/bottom-reply-bar.component.ts

···
-
 import { Component, Input, OnChanges, signal, SimpleChanges } from '@angular/core'
 import { MatButtonModule } from '@angular/material/button'
 import { MatTooltipModule } from '@angular/material/tooltip'

packages/frontend/src/app/components/post-actions/post-actions.component.html

···
     </button>
   }
   @if (userLoggedIn) {
-    <button (click)="replyPost()" mat-menu-item>
+    <button [disabled]="!content.canReply" (click)="replyPost()" mat-menu-item>
       <span class="post-actions-menu-span-content">
         <fa-icon class="mr-2" [icon]="reblogIcon"></fa-icon>
         Reply woot
···
       </button>
     } @else {
       @if (content.privacy !== 10 && content.privacy !== 1) {
-        <button (click)="quickReblog()" mat-menu-item>
+        <button [disabled]="!content.canReblog" (click)="quickReblog()" mat-menu-item>
           <span class="post-actions-menu-span-content">
             <fa-icon class="mr-2" [icon]="quickReblogIcon"></fa-icon>
             Rewoot
···
       }
     }
     @if (content.privacy !== 10 && content.privacy !== 1 && content.privacy !== 2) {
-      <button (click)="quoteWoot()" mat-menu-item>
+      <button [disabled]="!content.canQuote" (click)="quoteWoot()" mat-menu-item>
         <span class="post-actions-menu-span-content">
           <fa-icon class="mr-2" [icon]="quoteIcon"></fa-icon>
           Quote woot
···
           </span>
         </button>
       } @else {
-        <button (click)="likePost()" mat-menu-item>
+        <button [disabled]="!content.canLike" (click)="likePost()" mat-menu-item>
           <span class="post-actions-menu-span-content">
             <fa-icon class="mr-2" [icon]="solidHeartIcon"></fa-icon>
             Like woot