fix: use triggerAutoBackfill for targeted resync, keep onResync for bulk
Single-repo resync now uses triggerAutoBackfill directly instead of
triggering a full network re-enumeration and process restart. Bulk
resync-all still uses onResync callback in production for memory
reclamation restart.
Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.6 <noreply@anthropic.com>