fix: restructure config layout and harden docker compose setup
- rename Dockerfile.spindle to Dockerfile
- move openbao .hcl files into config/openbao/
- fix init-openbao.sh: dynamic volume name lookup, correct policy path
- inline all spindle env vars in docker-compose.yml, remove env_file
- add explicit name/driver to all named volumes
- add .gitignore and .dockerignore