# Crafting Your Values - Specifications ## Overview The "Crafting Your Values" exercise is designed to help you identify and refine what truly matters in your life. It guides you through a process of sorting, narrowing down, and articulating your core values. The exercise consists of four main parts and includes a comprehensive list of value cards. ## Part 1: So What's Actually Important to You (and What Isn't) - **Objective:** Begin by categorizing all provided values based on their personal significance. - **Setup:** - Use a set of value cards (printed or digital). - Prepare three columns titled: - **"Very important to me"** - **"Important to me"** - **"Not important to me"** - **Instructions:** - Place each value card into one of the three columns based on your immediate, gut reaction. - Do not overthink the placement; trust your feelings. - Review and adjust the placements until the columns accurately represent your priorities. ## Part 2: Narrowing Down - **Objective:** Refine the selection by focusing on values that you initially rated as "Very important to me." - **Instructions:** - Set aside the values in the "Not important to me" and "Important to me" columns. - Re-create three columns using only the values from the previous **"Very important to me"** category: - **"Very important to me"** - **"Important to me"** - **"Not important to me"** - Sort the remaining values again, comparing their relative importance. - Adjust the order until you feel that the columns accurately reflect your priorities. - **Outcome:** - If you end up with 5 or fewer values in the **"Very important to me"** column, you may skip the next step. - Otherwise, proceed to Part 3 for further refinement. ## Part 3: The Most Important Stuff - **Objective:** Identify your top core values from the refined list. - **Instructions:** - From the values sorted in Part 2, create two new columns: - **"Very important to me"** (suggested label: **"F\*CK YEAH"** – your must-haves) - **"Also something I want in my life"** (suggested label: **"THIS IS AWESOME TOO"**) - **Rule:** The **"F\*CK YEAH"** column can contain a maximum of **5 values**. - Finalize the selection by ensuring that only 5 values occupy the **"F\*CK YEAH"** column. - **Additional Task:** - For each of your 5 core values, write a personalized statement in the following format: - _I want [description of your core value]_ _(Example: "I want to accept myself as I am (self-acceptance)")_ ## Part 4: Your Core Values (Reference/Visualization) - **Objective:** Provide a visual summary of your final values. - **Instructions:** - Review a sample grid or template displaying categories such as: - **Personal Values** - **Important To Me** - **Very Important To Me** - **Not Important To Me** - Use this grid as a reference to ensure that your selections accurately represent your priorities. - This part may be provided as a printed template or a visual guide and serves as a confirmation of your finalized core values. ## Values List The exercise includes a comprehensive list of values. Some of the values are: - \*\*ACCEPTANCE, ACCURACY, ACHIEVEMENT, ADVENTURE, ATTRACTIVENESS, AUTHORITY, AUTONOMY, BEAUTY, CARING, CHALLENGE, CHANGE, COMFORT, COMMITMENT, COMPASSION, CONTRIBUTION, COOPERATION, COURTESY, CREATIVITY, DEPENDABILITY, DUTY, ECOLOGY, EXCITEMENT, FAITHFULNESS, FAME, FAMILY, FITNESS, FLEXIBILITY, FORGIVENESS, FRIENDSHIP, FUN, GENEROSITY, GENUINENESS, GOD’S WILL, GROWTH, HEALTH, HELPFULNESS, HONESTY, HOPE, HUMILITY, HUMOR, INDEPENDENCE, INDUSTRY, INNER PEACE, INTIMACY, JUSTICE, KNOWLEDGE, LEISURE, LOVED, LOVING, MASTERY, MINDFULNESS, MODERATION, MONOGAMY, NONCONFORMITY, NURTURANCE, OPENNESS, ORDER, PASSION, PLEASURE, POPULARITY, POWER, PURPOSE, RATIONALITY, REALISM, RESPONSIBILITY, RISK, ROMANCE, SAFETY, SELF-ACCEPTANCE, SELF-CONTROL, SELF-ESTEEM, SELF-KNOWLEDGE, SERVICE, SEXUALITY, SIMPLICITY, SOLITUDE, SPIRITUALITY, STABILITY, TOLERANCE, TRADITION, VIRTUE, WEALTH, WORLD PEACE. _(This list is not exhaustive; ensure all values from the original instrument are included.)_ ## Additional Considerations - **Flexibility:** There is no "one right way" to complete the exercise. Adapt the process to what feels most authentic to you. - **Iterative Process:** You may move value cards multiple times as your understanding and priorities evolve. - **Reflection:** Use the exercise as an opportunity for deep self-reflection to better understand what truly matters in your life. ## Final Outcome By the end of the exercise, you will have: - A clear categorization of your values. - A refined list of your top 5 core values. - Personalized statements that articulate your core values. - A visual summary or template that confirms your final selections. ## Public Domain This instrument is in the public domain and may be copied, adapted, and used without permission.